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"Fame is a four letter word.....and like tape, or zoom, or face, or pain, or life, or love.....What ultimately matters, is what we do with it." - Fred "Mister" Rodgers in 1999
He was born and raised in the Western Pennsylvania just like we were, and I was always proud to call him my neighbor.......May he rest in peace.
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It has been a while since I have been here; I cleared out most of my friends list to give me a fresh new start, here. Friendship Request are welcome; include a message with the request if you would like to be friends.
A lot has happened in my life since I have been here. I have met a few who are into spanking; but have not made the connection with who I truly seek. Like every other type of relationship; I know that it takes time.
I am here for friendship and a possible connection.
I live in Oklahoma; and my ideal spanking friend would be someone who spanks me for fun and the stress release that I need. I have been in relationships where there was discipline; I am not sure if the discipline is for me or not. I think it depends on the couple and maybe with the right man, it would be okay.
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I know i sad it before but i am back i checked in a few times while i was busy and gone so i was hoping to find someone to talk and hopefully more than one person and about anything just saying and i wish i could change my freaking avatar
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I wrote a version of this on my Tumblr Blog last night. But since this site has an issue regarding cut/pasting, I am going to have to make another version of it since word per word is not going to happen.
It's about accountability. We all know the word. No matter what lifestyle you are in, BDSM, Spanking, especially Domestic Discipline, the word accountability plays a large part of it. Those who are the lead in the relationship, the Tops, the Doms/Dommes, the HOHs, the Masters/Mistresses, the Disciplinarians, and all associated titles are the ones who hold their charges accountable for their actions and are the ones who inflict punishment when it is needed.
But then there is the issue of accountability that few want to discuss. The phrase, "Who Watches The Watchmen." is perfect for this. We, as the lead of these lifestyle, are not infallible. Who do we answer to when we screw up?
I have a book in my library, titled "An English Odyssey". Its the tale of a man who wants a few spanking relationships and gets way more than he bargained for. During the course of the story, he is told a tale from one of his spankees about a Domme she once knew.
The Domme had made a critical mistake one day in a session with her. One that could have led to a serious injury. After making sure that she was alright, the Domme came to a decision. She decided to take accountability for her actions and sentenced herself to a punishment caning.
Even recently, Disciplinarian Dana Kane found herself on the receiving end of a spanking as a result of a bout of irritability that had wrecked havoc on a pleasant day. Now while some may say that would make her look less in the eyes of those who she have and will punish, I say the opposite. It is good to know that a Top can make mistakes and can hone up to them.
Now this is something that, a far as I can tell, lacking in when it comes to the Male version of this. How are we held accountable and do we do so? And what happens when we do find ourselves in such a predicament?
Now there are some that feel Male Top, etc, are exempt from any such accountability. That to do so would make them less in the eyes of their Bottoms and such. I find that line of reasoning illogical.
Men fuck up too. Plain and simple. And just because you are a man does not lessen that fact. Especially a Male Top.
A couple of week ago, I screwed up. A really big screw-up involving a sum of money. Worse it was a childish mistake. One that could have been easily avoided.
Lady Darksong was very understanding. Probably far more than most women would have been in were they in her shoes. She reminded me that I have been under a lot of strain due to my job, and I use that word loosely, of late. But, for me, I can't use that as an excuse. Were it her, there would have been a punishment involved. So how can there be any less for me?
As a Man, a Top, a Dom, HOH, Husband and a Disciplinarian to not take any kind of accountability makes me a hypocrite and unfit to punish anyone. And that is how I am felling as of this moment.
So here is the plan. I am crafting a suitable punishment for my actions. If some men and women find such an action makes me less than a man in their eyes, less than a Top, well then they need to rethink what is to be all of those roles and titles truly mean.
Accountability is a lightsaber. It has no sides and can cut through anything.
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To figure when one gets lost is another way to get the person submissive.
I believe that as soon as possible, knickers or pants taken off. Partly, this may be part of being submissive and partly, I think better on the bare buttocks.
Gladly socks on, framing the buttocks. Boys / men are not wearing a sweater and girls / women can have the bra on it, if it fits into the spanking. Otherwise take it off.
With bare breasts can focus moves from the buttocks and genital area. However, chest, hands, feet and thighs can also get spanked.
I prefer the buttocks, thighs and genitals.
Matt Whip, whip and a bundle of birch twigs dipped in water is the perfect tool to shape another human being and make sure their ass is red and painful.
Everything is made with love, not sadism.
Spanking is good! It unites people, it punishes the needy and the release so much of the one who gives and receives. Spanking is good!
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Hi there everyone - just thought my friends here might be interested to hear I have a new video on line now - it is called "Lively Fun Caning" . In the few days it has been there, it has received some interesting comments - It isn't really quite the usual format, - the word FUN gives the clue, but doesn't mean she went "SOFT" on me!
Hope you enjoy...
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Spanking. Cocky and confident young people turn when they are above the knees with the butt bar and get what they deserve - a spanking.
Soo enjoyable to see this transformation.
Self I search for the right ones to spank. It is not easy. Many people find lost is perverse, others are afraid and do not dare to live out their desire to give and take.
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The craftsman is here. He has a nice way and I get the urge to ask him if he has tried to get spanked. A nice, firm ass, perfect for spanking.
I have ordered a paddle, a cane and several whips to better live out my interest - spanking.
Young people who need to be nurtured, the elderly who need to be reminded what it feels like to be spanked.
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Before I found this website at age 15, I had no idea that their were people that were into spanking for disciplinary reasons or just for fun. I was told that spanking was only for kids and that after 6th or 7th grade it was strange. Little did I know there were people out there who believed age didn't matter. After finding ST my interest in spanking grew. Over these past 6 years I have watched plenty of videos and found myself liking the ones that dealt with real issues (from DUI's to being disrespectful towards elders) more than others. I saw and read how the disciplinarian took time to understand the individual's problem and show support to them rather than just dish out the punishment. That way the two build a level of trust with each other. This made me think about not just being a spanker, but a friend. Joining ST should have been easy for me but it wasn't at first. It took a while for me to discuss my interest with others. I was afraid of talking about it with friends because I thought they would see me as strange so I never brought it up. Another thing is that I was reluctant on making a profile here because I was afraid of putting myself out to the world and wondering how people would respond. Finally after talking with someone recently that does want I would like to do, I made a profile and in the last few days I've chatted with some pretty nice people that I will hopefully meet soon. I don't know what happened, but even since joining I feel much better about myself than I have for a while. Now that I'm here hopefully this can be used as a stepping stone from being a newbie (I haven't spanked anyone yet) to an experienced disciplinarian. So after telling the story of my 5 year journey, I would just like to say "Hello" to the people of ST.
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A few people have asked me the same question over and over again throughout my years as a SpankO.. So I have decided to answer this question Publically for anyone who is curious to My Answer, My experience.
TyGrr how did you find your Disciplinarian/s....or past Disciplinarians throughout your lifetime? ok so here is the answer...short and sweet! I put myself out there....I knew just what I wanted...just what I needed....I surrounded myself with like minded individuals, I searched to find out people who lived the same lifestyle as me,I found out there were names for people like me...like us...SPANKOS!
I discovered the severity of my Kink a longtime ago...when I was a little girl at the babysitters house spanking another little girl name Amy. We always played house and I was always the Mother lol. Long story short when I turned 18 I discovered something else about myself, and they had a name for that too!
Switch!...At the tender age of 18 I spanked my first Male. It just kinda happened. I was massaging his back and slid my hand down further to the crease in his lower back that met with his ass.
Ive always been a spanko...and there has always been a deep, attachment I have with a nice ass...whether it be Male or Female but the real kicker was the dominant side of me was increasingly evident beyond my control. I felt that he was naughty as hell so my first impulse was to smack him on the ass....hard enough to get his attention and when he turned his head and looked up into my eyes I looked at him to confirm Yes I did it! then I smacked his ass again...immediately!
He kind of moaned a little under his breath and started to breathe harder but I just continued to smack his ass over and over again! this was the beginning of my first domestic disciplined relationship, only difference was back then I was the Authority figure in the relationship, I was the top, I dished out the discipline, I gave him rules to follow and when he fell short of that...of my expectations.... I spanked him.
We never really talked about it much. It just sort of fell into place. It was like we both knew what are roles were from that day forward. I was actually spanked as a young woman but fought against it every time and one day I just gave in to this other side of me...that wanted to submit all this control and Independence and just doing what I wanted to do and I allowed it to happen.
I submitted myself to a man.And as I laid myself across his knee.....it just felt right. It felt like this is where I am supposed to be. I felt so secure and safe....I felt that my man loved me and cared enough about me to show me some understanding and guide me along the way.....and you know what .........I LOVED IT!!!! JUST THOUGHT I would share this with yal.....xoxoxo TyGrr
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Well my good friend Niko has touched down in my state and we are gearing up to put a few young ladies over our knees in a few days. If there are any other ladies interested in attending, inbox me.
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Just in case it hasn't come up on your spanking tube page......My fist self spanking video has finally been posted.......I uploaded it at the beginning of this month but apparently it slipped by the developers. Please give me feedback on what you think, it'll give me a good indication whether to do more. Thanks :)
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As I look upon your face I think of the sizzling night we spend together
Making each other body tingle and squirm water falls of cum.
Pounding on your backside like a mighty drum.
Do you want some?
Do you think you can handle this resilient sizzling rod pounding against the pussy’s walls?
Are you ready for your eyes to roll in the back of your head from the ecstasy of your orgasm?
Are you ready to make seas of cum puddles under your hips?
Are you ready to have an orgasm that will make your legs quiver in enchantment?
As you can plainly see
I am ready to turn your body into my playground of extreme desire
I am ready to take your body on the cum train of extreme pleasure
Your body is summoning me and pleading me
To set these sheets a blaze from our love production
The production is not for just one night
This production will last until the end of time and space
Once you are in ecstasy playground
The love production take center stage
And lasts oooooh summoning …….
For as long as I want you to squirm
Think about it
Written by: Tossiah Haynes (me)
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If you can always be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains,
If you can resist complaining and boring people with your troubles,
If you can eat the same food every day and be grateful for it,
If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to give you any time,
If you can take criticism and blame without resentment,
If you can conquer tension without medical help,
If you can relax without alcohol,
If you can sleep without the aid of drugs,
Then you are probably the family dog.
Handle every stressful situation like a dog. If you can't eat it or play with it, pee on it and walk away.
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First stop on Spanking Tours, LLC is Australia! Today's lesson is, "Experiment! Try something new." Watch the video for inspiration.
London's Telegraph brings us this video of four black swans catching waves at Australia Kirra Beach in Queensland. Wonder if they were flying off to Oahu's North Shore at the end. Hung ten, dudes!
Dont be afraid to try something new. It might be fun.
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ive posted some new vids but i havent really done alot lately bc we found out that were pregnant so were taking it easy i still get my ass tore up just not as often i have one coming tmrw tho so stay tuned and once again thanks for all the love.....
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I intend to take a journey. Investigate every corner and shadow of this dark world that defines who I am at the very core of me. This is going to be a secret journey. My Lover would be very upset if He knew I were doing this, but I don't care. I can't afford to care any more. If he were able to see Me, I wouldn't perpetually crawl through almost every day in state of Starvation....
On my journey, I want to meet You. You know who You are. And I will know who You are. Distance shall be of no importance. I shall learn to do Your will through these slender fiber optics our fingers graze in a desperate frenzy to get our respective messages to our Benefactors and charges. We might never, ever, meet, but Your Mastery of me will be complete none the less. Though if You are who I need You so desperately to be, then We will touch most intently sooner than naught.
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The last time I visited Him, I made the mistake of mentioning some videos I had seen of people getting spanked with hairbrushes. Having never experienced it before, I had a mild curiosity, but I was afraid because, judging from the bottoms' reactions, it looked too painful for me. He must have picked up on my curiosity because he ordered me to get my hairbrush, put me over his knee and proceeded to "play" by alternately spanking me with it and then giving me pleasure. Although he didn't spank me very hard, the brush stung quite a bit. I don't think I could have taken it very well without the pleasurable interludes. The idea of being soundly punished with it makes me cringe.
I thought, having satisfied my curiosity, that was the end of the matter, but the other night He shocked me by telling me He was on the lookout for one of those old-fashioned wooden hairbrushes the barbershops used to use. Yeouch! The fact that he wants to add one of those to our collection does not bode well for my poor behind at all.
I have never seen one of those old barbershop brushes, but ClassyLady81 says they are made of thicker wood. Do any of you have a picture of this type of brush? Have you ever used one on a naughty bottom? Do tell.
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Most people here know I am a fairly serious person. I've also been told I am a rare breed - a non-switch dominant female. I like leaving them red and sore. But, I do not want to be... nor do I agree to (any longer) be a submissive. However, today, the tables were turned.
One of my housemates was outside and I heard her come in. I went into the kitchen to see what was up and she grabbing her head saying, "Help me!" I couldn't figure out what was up. But I rushed over to help. She was telling me, "Get it off me. Get it off." I couldn't find anything - probably because I had no idea what I was looking for. I backed up, saying, "I don't see anything." She was slapping at herself with a towel, saying, "Yellow Jackets. In your grill." My eyes got really wide at that. I love grilling and I love my grill. Then, out of nowhere, I felt this burning sensation. Over and over and over again - on my head! Now I am jumping around the kitchen, beating my head with a phone book (the first thing I could grab. The pain won't stop. I grab a glass of water, dumping it over my head. Still it won't stop. Pain radiating down the right side of my face - fire!!!!!!
My housemate, having killed her own tormentor, runs over to help. She hands me a comb, suggesting I try to "comb the f***er out". Willing to try anything, I attempt this, getting stung several more times in the process. But the thing comes out. I bring my hand up to my head.... OH CRAP! There is still something in my HAIR! Dumping more water on my head (why I don't know), I grabbed the comb again. What comes off the comb pops out of my scalp. It's a stinger. I didn't think Yellow Jackets lost their stingers, but maybe I beat the thing out of him. Anyhoo.... My SCALP was on fire!!!
Running to the bathroom, tearing off my clothing, and jumping into the shower, two more of the yellow jackets have the audacity to appear. One stings me on the left shoulder... the other my neck. They die a quick, hopefully painful death by being beat with a bottle of Pantene. I quickly take a shower, prayers being given to whatever deity is listening, that there are no more of these things.
As I shower, I remember that last time I tangled with a yellow jacket, I had a small allergic reaction and should probably not have locked the bathroom door. Oh, well. Not appearing to have any major reaction, I towel off, praying my housemate has not had a reaction.
I return to the kitchen, nicely showered. I learn, in my absence, three more yellow jackets had been removed from the land of the living. We were both fine - no reactions. But, the fire my scalp is feeling now must be cosmic payback for all the men whose backsides I have left alight. Payback. Cosmic Payback. Thy name be Yellow Jacket. But, Yellow Jacket? I shall have the last laugh. When this colony is destroyed (WHICH, it will be - with my dying breath, if need be), I will still be around to continue to light the night with the shining backsides of those I spank. They will be rotting in a trash can at the local dump. Spankings fade - 3 hours later, my pain is increasing. This was non-consensual!!!! All I did was enter my own kitchen to help a friend! Payback is a bummer! :)